If you live outside Washington State, I offer identity and relationship coaching nationwide and worldwide, providing supportive, growth-focused services that do not require therapy licensure in your state.
- There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you -
Maya Angelou
Healing often begins when stories that were once carried alone are spoken within safe, attuned relationships
A Place to Feel Seen, Heard, and Understood
At Aurenza Therapy, the process of healing begins with providing a space to be heard, seen, and deeply understood.
The work here welcomes and centers relationships and lived experiences, supporting adoptees, couples, and LGBTQ+ clients in exploring identity development through a culturally attuned lens that creates belonging, connection, and emotional well-being.
How I Can Support You
Adoptee Identity Development / Trauma Recovery
Specialized therapy supporting adoptees across the lifespan in exploring identity, belonging, attachment, and relational patterns shaped by adoption. This work centers lived experience, cultural identity, and emotional healing in affirming and understanding therapeutic spaces.
Relationship / Couples Therapy
Relational therapy supporting couples and partners in strengthening communication, rebuilding trust, navigating conflict, and deepening emotional and physical connection. Inclusive of diverse relationship structures and identities.
Ethical Non-Monogamy & Relationship Diversity
Specialized therapy supporting individuals, couples, and relationship systems practicing or exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and diverse relationship structures. This work centers emotional security, clear agreements, attachment awareness, and relational integrity within affirming and non-pathologizing spaces.
Identity, Culture & LGBTQIA+ Therapy
Affirming therapy supporting LGBTQ+ individuals and relationships in exploring identity, navigating life transitions, strengthening relationships, and processing experiences shaped by gender, sexuality, and cultural context.
Trauma & Attachment-Focused Therapy
Attachment-focused and trauma-informed therapy supporting adults and teens in understanding emotional patterns shaped by early relationships and lived experiences. This work strengthens nervous system regulation, relational security, identity clarity, and self-compassion within safe and attuned therapeutic spaces.
All services are offered via virtual therapy sessions for clients throughout Washington State
Meet Diego Vitelli, LMFT
Diego Vitelli, LMFT is an adoptee, relationship, and family therapist licensed in Washington State whose lived experience deeply informs his clinical work. He specializes in supporting adoptees across the lifespan — including children, teens, and adults — in exploring identity, attachment, belonging, and relational patterns shaped by adoption.
Diego’s work is grounded in relational, trauma-informed, and culturally responsive therapy. He supports individuals, couples, and LGBTQ+ clients in navigating identity development, relationship dynamics, and life transitions within affirming and inclusive therapeutic spaces.
He integrates attachment theory, trauma-informed care, and systems-based approaches in his work with adoptees, relationship systems, and LGBTQIA+ clients.
He provides virtual therapy for clients throughout Washington State and is committed to creating a space where clients feel seen, heard, and understood as they move toward deeper connection, clarity, and emotional well-being.
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