Relationship & Identity Therapy in Washington State
Relationship and Identity Therapy Grounded in Attachment, Cultural Awareness, and Relational Liberation.
I work with individuals and partners seeking deeper emotional connection, identity clarity, and relational equity across diverse relationship structures and cultural contexts.
Virtual therapy offered for those living in Washington State.
If you live outside Washington State, I offer identity and relationship coaching nationwide and worldwide, providing supportive, growth-focused services that do not require therapy licensure in your state.
- There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you -
Maya Angelou
Healing often begins when stories that were once carried alone are spoken within safe, attuned relationships
Relational Work Rooted in Emotional Depth & Liberation
Therapy begins with creating a space where individuals and partners feel seen, heard, and deeply understood. I approach this work through an anti-oppression, feminist lens that recognizes how systems of power — including patriarchy, racism, cultural conditioning, and religious scripts — shape identity and relationships. Together, we examine inherited patterns, strengthen emotional fluency, and build connections rooted in mutuality, accountability, and authenticity.
How I Can Support You
Adoptee Identity Development / Trauma Recovery
Specialized therapy for adoptees exploring identity, belonging, attachment, and relational patterns across the lifespan.
Relationship / Couples Therapy
Attachment-focused therapy for partners seeking deeper emotional connection, repair after rupture, and relational equity across diverse structures.
Ethical Non-Monogamy & Relationship Diversity
Affirming therapy for individuals and relationship systems navigating polyamory, open relationships, and evolving agreements.
Identity, Culture & LGBTQIA+ Therapy
Affirming therapy supporting exploration of sexuality, gender, culture, and relational authenticity.
Trauma & Attachment-Focused Therapy
Therapy addressing trauma, nervous system regulation, and attachment injuries shaping emotional and relational patterns.
Meet Diego Vitelli, LMFT
Diego Vitelli, LMFT is an adoptee, relationship, and family therapist licensed in Washington State whose lived experience deeply informs his clinical work. He specializes in supporting adoptees across the lifespan — including children, teens, and adults — in exploring identity, attachment, belonging, and relational patterns shaped by adoption.
Diego’s work is grounded in relational, trauma-informed, and culturally responsive therapy. He supports individuals, couples, and LGBTQ+ clients in navigating identity development, relationship dynamics, and life transitions within affirming and inclusive therapeutic spaces.
He works with men seeking to unlearn restrictive emotional conditioning and develop greater vulnerability, relational accountability, and connection.
He provides virtual therapy throughout Washington State and is committed to creating a space where clients feel seen, heard, and understood as they move toward deeper connection, clarity, and emotional well-being.
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